Ok, here’s the thing: My neighbor and I do not get along.
Her ex- bf is a prick,and is abusive to the kids, so her son says.
Her son is also a known liar,and has caused strife between my daughter ( whom he has a crush on and my daughter wants nothing to do with him,btw) and his mom.
His mom is bi-polar,homicidal,a drinker, suicidal and generally a bad-a$$, and has the attitude to back it up.
She is street-smart,sassy and narrow-minded. She also has a criminal record. Not to mention, she also has not been the best of mothers, teaching her girls, who are under the age of 8 to swear and get lippy with adults.
The mother, her nieces,and her girls also walk around the complex,late at night, saying ” F*ck you, motherf***er” thinking it’s funny to keep the neighbors awake with this.
My youngest daughter had been her kid’s target for awhile, as well as my middle daughter. The woman had been in a fight the day before and had also made several statements to the police,when they had shown up,about “Let Social Services try and take my kids. I got nothin’ to hide. I don’t care.”
This woman also drinks alot while on her psych meds,and has a real combative attitude all the time.
She sees me as a push-over and a wimp.
I had seen her this morning,and she had shown her hand to me,and it was swollen and red: she had punched a wall and busted it.
Both her son,which is also on psych medication for an “anger problem”,
and a neighbor kid,had instigated an incident,which she had gone off on me for and said I “need to keep my kid in line and not let her run off at the mouth.”
I confronted her with this,this morning. She was apologetic,sort of, but knew her son had instigated the fight,in which she had pounded upon the door of the apartment, that my daughter was in,causing that parent to call the police on her.
That was when she had made those comments,almost a challenge to the cop that was there.
She isnt so tough now,as I had tried to talk to her about this and she accepted that I had nothing to do with this, but deep down,I think she blames me for this.
What are your thoughts on how should I handle this situation?
First off,I do not “ramble.” I have had problems with this woman and her kids since they moved in. I do go outside and watch my kids,and no I do not wish to take credit for her kids being removed. I feel badly for her, buit on the other hand, it was what she had coming for being so mean.
my kids, are 12 and 6 1/2.